To tell or not to tell?

May 2, 2016
Monday evening
11:35 p.m.
Cold, thunder and light rain

      I was just thinking about how people seem to get upset when people don't let them know when they are very ill. On one hand I guess I can understand how people feel like the individual robbed them of having time with them before they passed away. On the other hand, I can see how the ill individual feels about not telling their loved ones. When I think about it, the ill person isn't robbing you of having time with them at all. I feel as though if people don't normally make time for you in life while you are well, what's the point?  I wouldn't want anyone giving me their time and attention out of pity. It's really about your own self-guilt because you chose to never make time for them. You robbed yourself because you chose not to come around and have quality time. It's amazing how people come to the funeral and want to act so heartbroken that the individual is dead but while they were alive you didn't call or visit. I guess the only person who needs to know you are dying is your spouse because they will be the one making the arrangements. Bottom line is this, don't show love because I am at death's door because that is fake! Ain't nobody got time for dat!!! If you don't want to chill with me now don't come around when I am damn near dead. Real Talk indeed! Good night and God bless!