Please Don't....

December 17, 2018
5:16 pm
Cold and dark outside




Season's Greetings Folks!
          I really can't stand when people do unkind things and try to justify their mess with some nonsense. If you want to do that, all well and good for you but please don't think I don't see or know what it really is. Folks always want to say something unkind and lowkey evil with a twist of casual nice... Please don't! I see right through that mess. Although I may entertain you by listening to you and letting you finish your spill like a telemarketer selling ill feelings, I am unbothered. Nothing you can say can change how I feel about me and how I love me! The Lord God himself, went to the cross for ME so that makes me pretty special. Folks who are lowkey miserable and unhappy within themselves want to bring negativity your way. Sorry boo, I don't do depressed or pity parties. God made me great, talented, kind, loving and intuitive. All the I love you's in the midst of the unkindness to my face or behind my back changes nothing about my joy level. I am kissed by God and my light will continue to shine in the midst of and in spite of the darkness you try to bring my way. You have known my worth since day one and it bothers you to the max because there is nothing you can say or do to change that. You can work to turn folks against me but truth always prevails, folks always tend to see me for who I am and not the fake portrait you may have painted for them. I have always been a person who doesn't need an entourage to hold me up or build me up. God does it all well and good by himself. My daddy told me I was a virtuous woman, heavenly and biological. Folks must be careful about digging ditches for others because the Lord has a way of making you fall into your own pit which you have dug for someone else. I do my best to uplift others and others do their best to bring me down. I am to strong for that.. try something else. Everyday may not be the greatest days but one thing I know for sure is trouble don't last always... this to shall pass. I appreciate my good days and my bad days because they are both ordained by God. I am thankful for life and grateful that I have the passion of Christ in my heart. Don't let nobody steal your joy, they didn't give it to you so they cannot take it away. To God be the glory!! So before you even think about trying to come for mine... Please Don't... because I can't be held responsible for what my Father will do to you. "You can't try to hurt a child of God and not expect God to come for you"  #HatersBeware #GodIsNotToBePlayedWith #LoveYourselfFlawsAndAll

Family Dinner.. Bring it back to the table!

October 1, 2018
Sunny & Warm
1:10 p.m.

           I noticed that family dinner time has changed so drastically. Families used to sit down to dinner at the table together. Everyone would talk about what happened in their day, good or bad. Nowadays dinner time is different for the kids and adults. The youngest children sit down with the parents/or parent but the older ones grab a plate and off to their rooms they go. Very rarely is everyone at the table at the same time anymore. Everyone is eating and watching television or social media instead of interacting with one another. The kids are going through so much in school with their peers and classes, they may be struggling but they are not sharing this information willingly. Now if they were at the dinner table and presented with the opportunity to speak up about their day it makes it a bit easier to discuss any struggles. I really think we should put in time at the family table again. Bring back family talk time and bonding again because things are going on and kids need their parents and parents need to know what's happening with their kids. When it's dinner time, call everyone to the table to eat as a family. Make sure all cell phones, tablets, iPads and laptops stay in the rooms so everyone can have each other's full attention. It's time to get our families back because right now the world is keeping a firm grip on them. If you don't think so, just turn on the evening news or read the paper. I challenge you, to step up and bring family dinner back to the table.

God bless!

T.D.

        

Good Morning!

Good morning!
      Sipping my morning coffee and daydreaming of a beautiful beach to relax on. I can feel the tropical breeze blowing and the sunshine on my face. The sand under my feet as I stroll along the shore's edge. I see the beautiful trees swaying, the sun glistening off of the clear ocean water. I hear the waves beat upon the shore like a drum. Have a blessed day America!

T.D.

The Four Season 2 Finale (Sharaya J & James)

                                         THE FOUR SEASON 2 FINALE  (I know I'm late with this but)

Sharaya J is amazing with her style and flow. James sings really well and it's now time for Diddy, 'Khaled and Megan to choose the winner. So happy to hear Sharaya J got a great report at her last doctor's appointment. Holding my breath to see who the winner will be. It's sad because James and Sharaya J have become good friends and now they had to battle it out against each other. Okay, here we go... and the winner is:

"JAMES GRAHAM" OMG.. Congrats James! Sharaya J you are amazing! I enjoyed every performance and every battle you did. May God continue to bless you and may you receive full remission on the cancer. I know God has something amazing right around the corner for you. Keep rockin ma ma!

Where are all the children?

11:05 a.m.
Thursday, August 9, 2018
Hot and humid
Sunny skies

Good morning America!

          Has anyone else noticed that you don't see children playing outside anymore? When I get in the car and drive thru my neighborhood I never see children riding bikes or playing ball. All you see is beautiful homes and cars to match. Where are all the children? Let me guess, playing Fortnite? The electronics of this world has really taken control of everyone and not in a positive way! If  you notice we all so glued to our gadgets! No one can dare survive without their cell phones in their hands. All eyes are glued to social media every free second they get. If they are driving in the car, people will damn near kill you and themselves trying to see what's new on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter and YouTube. Oh and don't get me started on the texting and driving, geesh! The rudeness of it all and the accidents because of it is out of control. We have to find a way to get our families back to the table. Dinner time used to be the time where parents could communicate with their children about their lives. We have to take back family time. Force the kids to turn the phones off for at least an hour and tune into life again. Focus on the family and change the world! Now that's what making America great again is really about, improving family life. Teaching kids to have respect for themselves and others. Using manners and learning how to interact with others without the stereotypes and labels. Human compassion and understanding, that's making America great! Stay blessed and stay woke!

T.D.

Cardi B Expecting Vs A Non Celeb female expecting

          "EXPECTING! PREGNANCY! EXCITED! BABY ON BOARD"

      Before I get started let me just say that I have nothing against Cardi B, just using her as an example. Wishing Cardi and Offset a blessed, healthy child, congrats to them both! Just have a few things on my mind about how the world is so confused and prejudice when it comes to financials. I wish someone could explain to me how people glorify getting knocked up out of wedlock when it's a celebrity  but if it was just Rasheedah from around the way people would be dragging her name through the mud. Speaking about how she needs to be ashamed of herself because she is a baby momma and not a wife and soon to be mother. Things seem to be such a double standard when it's someone with money. Cardi is said to be getting so many gifts already and that is a blessing. People who don't even know her personally is blessing her with stuff for her little one to come. That is how it's supposed to be, a loving celebration of life. Unfortunately, in the real world folks that's closest to Rasheedah will barely get her a gift for the baby but will have lots of gossip and smart comments. The celebs who are loaded financially get all types of stuff free of charge, where the ones who are barely making it gets barely anything on sale let alone for free. How backwards is that? I just don't understand that. I know some of you are saying, well the person who doesn't have much shouldn't have gotten pregnant. If she chose to terminate the pregnancy she is a terrible person, but the celeb terminates the pregnancy it's acceptable because they have such a busy schedule and no time for kids right now. Just sayin... it's nuts how people think! Holla if you hear me on this. So many things that God says is unacceptable, people accept it when it's a celeb; but will tell their best friend how wrong he or she is if they were doing the very same thing. Right is right and wrong is wrong no matter how many millions of dollars a person haves or does not have. Money can't buy you a place in heaven; if you didn't know that now you do!

           

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Wednesday Morning Meeting

March 28, 2018
Wednesday
Sunny & Cold
Mood: Tired
       

Good morning and God bless! Getting ready to go to this meeting at the school where a group of school teachers and specialist want to tell you about your child's short comings. Well, I know how powerful God is and how he can turn things around for good in an instant. Anyway, I hope they don't take long because I have a few errands to run before my kids get out of school. Have a blessed day all!

Good Morning!

                   


T.D.

Stay in ya lane!

January 22, 2018
11:45 a.m.
Monday


     I went to the mall with my husband and children on Saturday afternoon being that it was a lovely day outside. The girls wanted to grab some Wendy's while we were there so we popped in so they could have lunch. On the way out the girls were clearing their mess into the garbage but my youngest didn't notice the trash bin nearest us so headed to the one farther away. So I said to her, over here hun use this garbage. She began being silly acting as if she didn't see the trash bin I was referring to. So I said over here silly, this one right here. Out of nowhere a Wendy's employee interrupts and yells to my 6 year old child, put it over here in this garbage bin, it's right here in front of you! What are you blind or something? I wanted to take his face and smash it into the trash at that moment! "How dare you speak to my daughter that way! Who do you think you are? Don't you ever in your life speak to my child or any other child like that ever again", I yelled! He stood there looking like an idiot and then he says, well sorry in a sarcastic tone. I said "Yes, you are sorry!" The nerve of this character! What if she was blind? That was so rude and unnecessary on all levels. I thank God for Jesus because the old me would've jacked that fool up and threw him in the trash! I bet you he will think twice before doing that again! Lol