I'm really trying to wrap my head around today's young women and why they tolerate so much nonsense. It's sad to say that it seems they will sell their self respect for some penis. It's ridiculous on how much nonsense they are willing to put up with for the sake of saying: "My Man" Really women, really? It's not that serious!
I'm raising two little girls myself and when I take a look at the youth of today, I'm frightened a bit! I have 4 sons and I pray to God that they stay true to what I have taught them. I have told my sons over and over again, you don't treat a female no different than how you would want your sisters and me to be treated. Respect, honor, and love the woman in your life. Cherish her and treat her like a queen. I know as parents we can teach our kids values and not to be a fool for anyone but it's initially up to them to follow through.
It breaks my heart when I see these independent, beautiful, talented and lovely girls settling for less. They go to work everyday, they pay their own bills, have their own place and vehicle. Basically they are handling their business but dating a dead beat dude! Help me understand this? The young male that has no job, no money, no ambition, nothing to bring to the table seem to snag these great women. They have baby momma drama, child support up the ying yang and don't pay that! They sit home, scratching their butts, while sitting in front of the computer looking for their next victim!
These dudes have it made in the shade. They don't have to do nothing but stroke the girl's ego every now and then. They abuse these young women physically, mentally and verbally. They hinder them in so many ways. These young ladies will share him with other women if need be, as long as he comes home to them every night. Why young ladies, why? Don't you feel you deserve better than that? Why settle for being his jump off, or let him use you for a place to stay? Why settle for being a baby momma instead of being a wife? I don't know what it is that's causing the young women to put up with the BS. Fathers please let your daughters know that they are lovely and beautiful and loved unconditionally. Let your daughters know their worth and they need not put up with just any ole average joe! Most of all, Fathers teach your daughters and sons by example of how you treat their mother. The way you live before your children speaks volumes. It is said that action speaks louder than words, believe that! Pray and pray and pray! Seek God on all things and then do what He says! Young ladies, please stop settling and know your worth. If your momma didn't tell you or your daddy didn't tell you, I am telling you today! You are made by God and He says you don't have to settle for less than what's best for you! Learn to love yourself, and stop worrying about your relationship status with this no good men. Break that cycle of being the victim and stand strong the way God made you to be! A man will only do to you what you allow him to do! Only you have the power to change your life for the better.
